I don't think you own an apology at all. I think you're right dead on the money.
I was an avid watcher of Queer as Folk, and I watch Logo, and of course I watched Will and Grace. (Incidentally Bat, for clarification sake, the Sally Fields show is "Brothers and Sisters") I liked Will and Grace and I like Brothers and Sisters, and I liked Six Feet Under when it was on. Queer as Folk, I couldn't stand most nights because it just focused way too much on the negative. Don't get me wrong though. It sent some valuable messages through out the series. I guess if I were straight, I'd feel the same way about soap operas with the notable exception of the valuable message part... LOL
I guess that all I want to see is where we as a sect of society, are represented with dignity and accuracy. The way that I look at it is that my partner and I are in love like any other couple, we just happen to both be guys. LOL Know what I mean?